Paradise Eh?

My SO has not been himself lately. He says he's been having some family problems but we'll see. I hate that whenever he has s problem he shuts down and doesn't want to talk about it. He's such a man... It's like he crawls in a hole or something. Very strange. But what really gets me is that he expects me to do the opposite. Let me have a problem and he'll worry me to death asking what's wrong. Sometimes I just don't feel like being bothered. I can't win...