Monday, May 5, 2008
Growth and Development
I've been on the fence the last few weeks about some friend issues. I've been out of college almost 2 years now and my girlfriend circle has slowly diminished for various reasons. One being that I felt the relationships were not genuine. I got tired of hanging onto one sided relationships and phony people. Sure sometimes I miss them, but I'm alright. I just feel like I'm outgrowing my friends. The goals, interests and common ground we once shared are no more and I'm not totally sure why. You would think that with all of us graduating and entering the world of working adults that we'd have the same priorities but I guess not. Some people are more interested in partying than their newfound obligations as a working adult. I don't quite understand it but to each his own. Has anybody else outgrown a friend?
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Girl, get out of my head. I was playing this out in my mind last weekend. I've outgrown more than a few friendships recently. Personally, I believe my goals have shifted tremendously in the last few years. It's harder to forge relationships with people as you get older... so I'm just happy and blessed to still have a relationships with my two childhood best friends.
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